“Temporary pleasure fades, but a lifelong partnership is a legacy.”
In today’s global media culture, one thing is clear:
Sex is glamorized everywhere — in movies, music, Netflix, Instagram, and even classroom discussions in the West.
What’s missing?
Marriage.
You’ll find countless shows about dating, hookups, and “freedom,” but very few that celebrate:
- The sacred bond of nikah
- The loyalty of one love
- The beauty of growing old together
So why has the West made sex so “cool” and marriage so “boring”?
And why should our girls choose differently?
Let’s dig in.
📺 1. The Media Sells Fantasy, Not Reality
Western entertainment shows sex as:
- Effortless
- Fun
- Exciting
- Casual
But they never show:
- The heartbreak after
- The depression
- The diseases
- The betrayal
- The emotional emptiness
And marriage? It’s shown as:
- Boring
- Controlling
- Problematic
This is intentional.
Why?
Because freedom sells, and responsibility doesn’t.
💔 2. Hookup Culture Leads to Loneliness
In the name of “freedom”, the West has replaced love with lust.
Now relationships are short, shallow, and disposable.
The results?
- Skyrocketing divorce rates
- Fatherless children
- Commitment issues
- Rising depression in young women
Meanwhile, marriage offers:
- Stability
- Love with loyalty
- Emotional safety
- Family structure
But none of that gets “likes” on Instagram.
👰 3. Marriage Empowers — It Doesn’t Cage You
Western voices often say:
“Marriage takes your freedom.”
But here’s the truth:
Marriage gives you a partner, not a prison.
You get:
- A teammate in life
- A protector
- A supporter of your dreams
- Someone who loves you without expiry date
Real freedom is not in being passed from one relationship to another — it’s in having someone who stands by you through all storms.
💡 4. Why Our Girls Should Choose Marriage, Not Lust
Dear girls, don’t fall for the West’s fantasy.
Choose something real, something halal, something that builds your future — not burns your soul.
Marriage gives you:
- Respect, not regret
- Legacy, not just likes
- Meaning, not just moments
You deserve love with purpose — not just attention with a deadline.
🌸 Final Words
In a world where sex is sold like candy and marriage is mocked like a joke, choosing commitment is revolutionary.
- You’re not old-fashioned for wanting a husband who respects you.
- You’re not weak for choosing marriage over hookups.
- You are wise.
- You are brave.
- You are building what the world is forgetting — a home, a family, a future.
Written by:
A believer in true love, built on faith — not filters.
